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The Stars Have Aligned

Just as summer break isn’t as sweet without nine months of school and a cold shandy is significantly more refreshing after a long bike ride, contemplating death helps us to live a more vibrant, intentional and loving life. A few summers ago, I spent a month at Esalen in Big Sur, CA.  One of many […]

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I Should Have Said

I should have said, “no” to all the men in my life. I should have said, “yes” to all the women. However, the effects of family and life experience caused a need in me to garner the attention of men and a fear in me of the attention from women. I sadly believed my only

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Leveling Up

What do you tell a young student who isn’t making good choices in friendships, nor putting in sufficient academic effort, yet is clearly intelligent, athletic, and talented? Well, a story.  A true story that you hope will illustrate the great benefit of staying the course. A story that encourages one to take the best care

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Hair Trauma

Hair has forever been such a crucial part of our beauty, i.e. good hair day, bad hair day. When our hair behaves for us, we are queens! Women in general spend a ton of money and time on cuts, color, and products! My current partner refers to me as “hair bear” and claims it was

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Musings on Living Alone

I don’t think it’s good to live alone for too long a time.  In my experience, one becomes a bit animalistic.  Sometimes I shove food in my mouth like I’ve been asleep for 20 years. And if it’s pudding or cookie dough, I lick that huge stainless steel bowl like a dog.  If it’s popcorn

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Back to School 2022

After 3 days of Professional Development that entailed multiple meetings, a dynamic speaker, a boring lawyer, a Right to Read training, and an unnerving video on dating violence, I left school on Thursday feeling physically and emotionally drained.  The back to school energy shift is difficult for teachers, students, support staff and families alike.  Please

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A Silent Retreat

Have you ever been curious about those weirdos who pay good money to be silent for extended periods of time? What happens at these retreat places? If you’re the least bit curious, please come along on my recent 4 day silent yoga retreat in New Hampshire! I drove up on Thursday afternoon and arrived late

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List Making

Are you a list maker?  I can’t remember the exact moment I fell in love with the process, but I would guess my planner obsession started over 35 years ago.  Driving to Barnes and Noble to peruse a variety of New Year planners was a close second to opening gifts on Christmas morning!  Over the

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Makin’ Moves

The end of the school year came to a screeching halt.  In addition to the amped up end of year teacher tasks, my Tuesday night writing meetings concluded, as did the development of the website for this blog. What a gift of space and freedom!!  There’s truly nothing like it and it’s amazing for a

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